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April 10, 2010

3 steps to take if Private Equity has not replied to your Resume

Needing a Financial Analyst number cruncher to take over a challenging role left by one of my employees who has returned home to China, I began a search. I received an overwhelming response, probably because it is spring of a terrible drought in jobs; and we are in the cutting edge industry of private equity.
Many MBA graduates also have sugar plum salaries dancing in their heads that are just not the reality on the Street.
I had the resumes for a month, I went away on vacation and thought I had got return emails covered by one of the staff. I was wrong, the emails had not been sent.
When I returned, I received a scathingly rude email from a young man incensed by my greed and how I had not replied to his request to get the job. At first I thought, "Ah, this must be a number-oriented young man who is obviously challenged in his inter-personal skills. Good point that he made about getting back to him."
I took that input, even though the reasons he gave were not my intent at all.
That young man rushed to give me his views on why I was not replying to his email. In his judgement, which he revealed in great detail in his email, I was worse than the greedy Wall Street Robber Barons. I could imaging spittle flying from his mouth as he laid out the injustice of it all to me. He would teach me a lesson that I did not know as I was blinded by greed.
Oh dear. It was just that I had bumped into one of those trade-offs in career. I had taken a long vacation with my family, and it cost me productivity in my business. If this young man had just inquired and prodded me politely, he would have found out why the silence.
Here is a great Harvard Business School tip of the day for this young man; perhaps it will help with his future job search:
Link to HBS

Silence is the worst kind of feedback — it is ambiguous and generic. When you don't know why someone hasn't called you back or responded to your email, it is all too easy to assume the worst. Here are 3 steps to take if you're getting the silent treatment:
  1. Accept that you don't know. Acknowledge that you don't know what the silence really means. Resist the temptation to fill in the blanks with your own insecurities.
  2. Ask for clarity. Reach out to the person and ask him to tell you why he's not responding.
  3. Believe the answer. Whatever the response — he was too busy, he forgot — don't read between the lines. Accept it as truth and move on.
Jacoline Loewen, Money Magnet, Attracting Investors to Your Business

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