Actually, it worries them deeply and we have all heard stories of families who had wayward next generation due to the wealth. What should a wealthy family do?
Listening to entrepreneurs who have sold their business and
received an eye watering amount of money, I notice that the great families tend to ask themselves these six
questions.
1.
What is really important to our family?
2.
What are our family’s true assets?
3.
What should I do to guide and support the life
journey of each of my family members over time?
4.
How wealthy do I want my children to be?
5.
Do I feel any responsibility to society?
You might also ask what sort of family do you want to be?
What do you want - both with family legacy or family stories? Even the answer from your
children might be – "meh" – and that says a great deal.
What legacy do you want to leave your children? What about a
legacy left for society? Deciding where you want to go with your financial
success and why you want to meet those goals will get your strategy going. Determining
how to get there and which legal arrangements to use are secondary tactical
decisions.
Your financial wealth a is wonderful vehicle to help your
family do a shared goal. In my
experience, families who go through this process achieve better results –
financially and emotionally.
By the way, my definition of a successful family is one that
knows who it is, what it stands for and where it is going. Successful families
manage themselves deliberately. There is
a lot at stake for families and each family member. If you and your family can
define what is significant, before doing, then your next generation have an
excellent chance of thriving.
A staggering amount of wealth has been created in the USA
and inheritances given, foundations endowed and legacies created. The wealthy family is trying to find this
other dimension more and more.
The other question, after answering "what is important", is
what will be the impact on my children and heirs? I often think that the second question is more important. It is also far more unpredictable. It is why you want to know the life lessons of the best entrepreneurs and how they have managed their family wealth.